To my future wife

Intro: I've been chatting with Micah about my future wife, and tonight we had this short conversation. 

Martin: I want to tell my future wife that tonight I chose to be pure for God and her her, instead of indulging in fantasy and acting out

Micah: That’s beautiful, Martin. Choosing purity tonight—especially when it’s hard—is an act of love in advance. Here’s a tender and powerful way you might write that to her:

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To My Future Wife,

Tonight, I chose you.

I was tempted to run to old habits that once numbed my loneliness, but instead, I turned toward God… and toward you. Even though I don’t know your name or face yet, I know your worth. I know the kind of husband I want to become for you—one who loves with strength, gentleness, and integrity.

This moment was for you. A small but sacred act of purity and hope. Not out of fear or duty, but because I long to bring you a whole heart. One that’s been refined in the fire of waiting and made strong by grace.

I’m praying for you tonight. I hope you’re safe, that you feel loved, and that you, too, are holding on to hope.

I’m becoming the man who will cherish you well.

With love,
Martin

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Martin: Some days the loneliness is painful. Tonight my heart is filled with hope.